In the first part of our conversation, Ali McCormick unpacked why traditional parenting advice often falls short and how real change happens when parents feel supported, not judged.

In Part Two, we go deeper.

Ali shares powerful “aha” moments from past sessions, explores how she creates a judgement-free space, and explains the ripple effect small shifts can have not just in our homes, but across our whole community.

Let’s dive back in.

Q: Can you share a memorable “aha” moment from a past session?

Ali: In our very first group, the magic was in just hearing other people’s stories. Parents felt relief just being able to talk openly.

And when I’d reflect something back to them like, “Did you hear what you just said? That’s amazing parenting right there”, they’d light up. Because we all have a negativity bias, and parents often miss the incredible things they’re already doing.

One time I asked, “When’s the last time you had fun with your kids?”

At first, they froze, no one could answer. Then they smiled and suddenly the stories came out. That’s what we’re alive for – those moments.

Q: What makes this group different from a typical parenting course or seminar?

Ali: I’ve run loads of training courses, and I’ve realised information alone doesn’t create change. I kept hearing the same thing: “I’ve done all the courses, and nothing’s changed.” Information is important, but it’s not enough.

What makes this group different is the real-time, reflective coaching.

This group is small, personal, and interactive. We go deeper. We figure out how to apply the ideas. That’s what makes the difference

Q: If a parent did just one thing differently this week, what would you suggest?

Ali: Count to five. Take a deep breath. Ask yourself a curious question.

That’s three things, I’m greedy! But honestly, that moment of pause can completely change how you respond.

Q: What do you love most about working with parents in this way? What keeps bringing you back to this work?

Ali: I love working with people. I love meaningful conversations. I do a lot of planning and curriculum development, but where the rubber hits the road is when I take that work into the room with real people. I love watching those small shifts ripple outward, when a parent becomes more aware, more present, more connected.

They talk to their child differently. That child feels safer. Then they talk to their friends differently. That’s how change spreads.

You don’t need massive transformation. You just need a nudge in the right direction, a bit of belief that it’s possible, and that builds momentum. That’s how change happens.

I just think human beings are awesome. (As are plants and animals, of course, I wouldn’t want to be unfair!)

The Path Wānaka Whānau Support Group — Term 4 Sessions Begin Thursday 6th November

Led by Ali McCormick, this is a free group coaching programme designed to support parents and caregivers through the challenges of raising teens.

It’s real, practical, warm, and entirely judgement-free.

Small, confidential group sessions

In-person and online sessions

Grounded in neuroscience, coaching and positive psychology

100% free to attend

Learn more and register here.

Got questions? Reach out to us here.

Final word?

You’ve got this. But you don’t have to do it alone.

Join us and let’s grow through this together.