Parenting teens doesn’t have to feel like survival mode. Your relationship with your teen is too important to leave to chance.

What Does a 'Good Parent' Prioritise Every Day?

(Hint: It’s not perfection.)

Myth: Good parents always know what to do and never need help.

In the chaos of modern parenting, work pressures, school demands, and endless notifications, it’s easy to feel like you’re never quite doing enough. But here’s a gentle reminder: your teen doesn’t need a perfect parent. They just need a present one.

Instead of chasing perfect parenting, try shifting focus to what really matters:

• PRESENCE over perfection
• LISTENING over lecturing
• CONNECTION over correction
• GROWTH over grades

A Simple Daily Check-In

If you’re not sure where to start, ask yourself this:

How much deep attention do I give to building a positive connection with my teen each day?

These quick, low-effort ideas can have a big impact over time:

• 10 minutes of undivided attention every day
• One genuine compliment about their character
• Ask: “What was the best part of your day? Why?”
• Share something new you learned recently

These simple, ‘daily’ consistent moments help build trust, respect, and openness that teens respond to.

You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

The Path Wānaka Parent Whānau Group Coaching Programme is designed for parents who want practical tools, not just theory, and a safe, confidential space to explore challenges, feel heard, and learn strategies that actually work.

Whether you’re navigating:

- Communication breakdowns

- Behavioural challenges

- Big emotions (theirs or yours)

- Feeling unsupported or overwhelmed or just stuck …

… you’re not alone. And you’re not failing. 

Term 4 Group Details

We’re back for Term 4 starting on Thursday 6th November with a mix of in-person and online sessions, designed to work with your busy schedules.

Join other local parents creating positive change in their families through confidential small group parent coaching.

What you’ll get from the group:

• Real tools that work for real teens
• Support from other local parents facing similar struggles
• Strategies to rebuild connection and trust
• Confidence in your parenting and decision-making

Or if a group isn’t your thing, private 1:1 sessions (45-60 minutes) with Ali are also available.

One Last Thing

You’ve got this.

But you don’t have to do it on your own.

Every parent in our coaching programme has started exactly where you are now – unsure, tired, and trying their best. 

Choose to invest in the most important relationship of all. Your teen needs you to be the parent who:

• Shows up
• Stays curious
• Keeps growing

Want to learn more?

Learn more here or contact us [email protected] with any further queries.

Truth: ‘Good parents ask for help when they need it’. 

(Real parenting isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up, learning as you go, and modelling that it’s OK to seek support. That’s not weakness — that’s wisdom).

Author: Ali McCormick 

Discretionary Efforts (discretionaryefforts.com)

Parent | Whānau Group Coach

About Ali McCormick. Ali is a highly Skilled and engaging teacher; she makes complex concepts easy to grasp and apply, instilling confidence in all learners. Her style is clear, positive and inclusive. Ali's powerful coaching skills ensure everyone walks away with an actionable, personalised plan.