Gillian brings more than 30 years’ legal experience, both in Scotland and New Zealand, to the role, and has a particular passion for protecting children, as much as is possible, from the conflict that often surrounds relationship breakdowns.

“The whole point of doing this type of work is that you really want to help the children. It’s also about supporting parents in keeping the focus on their youngsters and giving them certainty and stability, while firmly setting any of their own adult discord and grievances aside,” she says.

“There is so much research out there that shows handling post-separation care arrangements for children well, and in their very best interests, really can make such a positive difference to the youngsters.

“Sadly, studies also show a greater chance of poor outcomes where arrangements don’t go so well, and, sadly, it’s common for these negative impacts to follow youngsters into adulthood and throughout their whole lifetime.”  

Feedback, comments and questions are always welcomed – please feel free to e-mail me on [email protected].

T: 03 443 0900

W: www.aspiringlaw.co.nz

Gillian Stuart is Aspiring Law’s Family Law specialist.